At a loss

Feeling stuck

Just a quick context before I dive in – my boyfriend is in biglaw and tends to be a bit rude, often looking down on my career in Corporate Social Responsibility. While I initially found his Ivy League background charming, it’s become clear that his aspiration to fit in with the finance crowd drives his superficial attitudes. I fell for him hard, but now I’m questioning if it was worth it.

Logically, I should probably walk away, but instead, I took the LSAT and scored a 170, even though my undergrad GPA isn’t great.

So here’s where I am: I got accepted to Fordham’s part-time program with a full scholarship, which made me really excited. However, I’ve been feeling really disheartened lately. With AI advancements and the job market shifting, I’m worried that even if I excel and build a strong network, it might not matter when it comes to job prospects.

I apologize for the rant. I’ve always wanted to transition into biglaw after my previous career, and now I’m seeking insights from those currently in the field about the outlook for 2028/2029 graduates. Any advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you!

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  1. First off, congratulations on getting a full ride to Fordham! That’s an incredible achievement, especially considering the challenges you’ve faced. It’s completely normal to feel anxious about the future, especially with the rapidly changing landscape of the legal profession.

    Regarding your situation with your boyfriend, it’s understandable to have mixed feelings. It can be tough when someone you love has a different perspective on what’s valuable in life. Your passion for giving back and CSR is important, and it’s worth being with someone who respects and supports those values.

    As for your concerns about job prospects post-graduation, you’re not alone. Many students worry about the effects of AI and economic changes on the job market. However, there are a few things to keep in mind:

    1. Adaptability: The legal industry has always been about adapting to change. While AI will certainly impact certain tasks, there will still be a need for human attorneys to handle complex reasoning, ethical considerations, and client relationships.

    2. Networking: Building relationships during your time in law school can open up opportunities that might not be available otherwise. Your network can be a powerful asset, especially in a competitive job market.

    3. Skills Diversification: Consider developing skills that are complementary to legal work, such as tech-savvy abilities, project management, or data analysis. This can make you more attractive to potential employers.

    4. Market Shifts: The legal landscape is always changing. While some traditional roles may diminish, others will evolve or emerge. Staying informed about industry trends can help you position yourself effectively.

    5. Mindset: Finally, try to cultivate a growth mindset. Challenges will arise, but every experience is an opportunity to learn and grow.

    You’ve already accomplished so much by getting into law school. Focus on your journey and the impact you want to make, and remember that it’s okay to seek support from friends, family, or mentors along the way. You’ve got this!

  2. Thank you for sharing your journey; it’s clear you’re at a pivotal crossroads and navigating complex emotions. First, congratulations on your LSAT score and acceptance to Fordham! That’s a significant achievement that speaks to your dedication and potential.

    Your concerns about the evolving job market and the impact of AI are completely valid. It’s true that the legal landscape is changing rapidly, and the integration of technology is reshaping traditional roles. However, what many in the field still value is the human element—critical thinking, personal interaction, and ethical decision-making—all of which AI struggles to replicate.

    As you move forward, consider building a network not only within biglaw but also among legal tech firms or organizations focusing on the intersection of law and social impact. Your unique background in Corporate Social Responsibility could position you as a valuable asset in a sector that is increasingly focused on ethics and social responsibility.

    Additionally, it might help to participate in forums or discussions about the changing legal landscape. Engaging with professionals who are already adapting to these changes can provide insight and foster connections that are beneficial for your career trajectory.

    Finally, don’t lose sight of who you are and what you value. A supportive partner should uplift you and appreciate your career ambitions. Reflect on whether your relationship aligns with those values and if it fuels your professional growth or hinders it. Remember, your path is your own, and it’s okay to pursue what feels right for you. Best of luck as you embark on this exciting new chapter!

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