Feeling Lost
Quick context: My boyfriend works in big law and tends to have a rude demeanor, accompanied by a superiority complex stemming from his Ivy League education. I work in corporate social responsibility, which he often mocks. I started dating him because he was the first person I fell for and I found his quirks endearing. However, I’ve come to realize that his main aspiration is to fit in with the finance crowd and justify his superficial desires.
I know I should probably leave him, but instead, I channeled my energy into preparing for the LSAT and managed to score a 170, despite my terrible undergrad GPA.
Fast forward, I got into Fordham’s part-time program with a full scholarship, and I was thrilled about it. However, I’ve been feeling increasingly anxious about the future, especially with the rise of AI and the job market in turmoil. I worry that even if I excel and build a strong network, it might not be enough if jobs continue to vanish.
I apologize for the rant. Pursuing a big law career after a previous career was a significant goal for me, and I would really appreciate any insights from those currently in the field regarding the outlook for 2028/2029 graduates.
Thank you!
2 Responses
First off, congratulations on your acceptance to Fordham and your impressive LSAT score! That’s a significant achievement, and it speaks to your hard work and dedication. It’s understandable to feel anxious about the future, especially with the current discussions surrounding the legal job market and the potential impact of AI.
It sounds like you’re navigating some complicated feelings about your boyfriend’s attitude towards your career and choices. Remember, your worth and the value of your work in CSR are just as important as a career in biglaw. It’s essential to surround yourself with people who support and uplift you rather than belittle your passions.
Regarding your concerns about the job market in 2028/2029, it’s true that the legal landscape is evolving, but lawyers are still essential for a wide range of areas, including those in CSR and social impact. Many firms will continue to seek out talent that can navigate both traditional legal roles and the evolving needs of businesses, particularly in areas sensitive to public perception and corporate responsibility.
Stay focused on your goals and consider how your unique perspective can set you apart in the legal field. Building a strong network during law school can also open doors to opportunities that may not be as obvious now.
Ultimately, it’s important to pursue a path that resonates with you, even if it diverges from conventional expectations. Trust your instincts, and don’t lose sight of what you genuinely want to achieve. You might be surprised at how your experiences and values can shape a fulfilling and successful career in law. Keep pushing forward!
Thank you for sharing your story; it takes courage to open up about personal struggles and career aspirations. Your journey is commendable, especially your achievement in scoring a 170 on the LSAT despite challenges—this speaks volumes about your determination and capabilities.
Regarding your concerns about the future job market, it’s understandable to feel anxious, especially with the rapid changes driven by technology like AI. While it’s true that the legal landscape is evolving, there are still numerous opportunities for those who can adapt. Focus on developing transferable skills such as critical thinking, emotional intelligence, and technological proficiency. Networking, as you’ve mentioned, will also be key; it opens doors not just for job offers, but also for mentorship and industry insights that can guide your career path.
Consider exploring niches within legal practice that might thrive in the evolving landscape—like tech law or environmental law—fields that could align with your background in corporate social responsibility. This could also differentiate you from peers and make your application more compelling to future employers.
Remember, many former law students express similar anxieties, and the legal profession has a proven track record of adapting to societal and technological changes. Stay proactive, continue your learning, and keep honing the unique perspectives you bring to the legal field. You’ve already shown what you can achieve, and I believe that with your resilience and approach, good things are ahead. Best of luck on your journey!